Daily Reminders of Love (11)

 Section 51: Tanzania recognize their feelings
November 9
no target if rambling conversation
woman talk with people, you can put aside the murderous and workplace stress, regain women men if they attempted to help female companion in a conversation to solve the problem, but will prevent her vent. If they could talk about letting her problems, do not rush to help her solve, and the attitude of compassion and understanding to respond to, companion will feel very happy. With such support, she can put aside the burden, to express sorrow, and slowly settle down, while full of gratitude and love, and to restore women's gentle manner and conversation.
if the gentle way a woman can vent negative emotions, men will be more willing to face her. sometimes you might talk to the men take the initiative to invite female companion, help would be great because, like modern women often like men charge forward, unless someone else take the initiative, or she is not even clear they need to talk with others. If the past when she was there to share with others had an unpleasant experience, and perhaps more would not think they need to talk. Therefore, if a man calmly offer, she will not have to worry about the other side she will be too tired.
November 10
Tanzania recognize their feelings
love a person, does not mean you have to like each other all the words and deeds.
the woman, she can express chagrin, disappointment, anger, hurt and the mood of terror, taking into account the love and acceptance. She can sometimes happy, sometimes depressed, for his anger and love. woman admitted if their feelings and needs identified, will be very happy and grateful, because those emotions are real of. the mood like the weather woman, ever change. However, without rain Fei Wei, how could we appreciate the clear Lang Li Yang!
November 11
emotions such as wave
man If a woman does not know how tolerant happy, sometimes she does not really happy together forever. Women must express, treatment and purification of their emotions, to get a real joy, this is a natural and healthy process.
If We want to have love, happiness, trust and gratitude and other positive emotions, we must understand anger, sadness, horror and sadness and other emotions. a woman only after the trough into a mood to treat these negative emotions; men must retreat to their own cave, to clear the mind of the garbage, understand the positive feelings.
woman is like the tide, emotions are running high, she met with on their own, the net is good to see things; waves break, she will be aware of their missing things, and only obsessed with what they do not.
Without understanding the nature of women, such as waves, the man is difficult to understand or accommodate changes in their mood, do not understand why the external economic environment, and They were really getting bad.
if this difference in mind the above, the men will be able to master the trick, in the companion most in need of love, to meet her needs.
November 12 < br> Forgive
tolerance is both candid relative, together for the most important skills for life. only to forgive each other's mistakes to their own lack of tolerance.
If you are in a relationship of resentment unsolved, even still in love with each other, you will pay a relatively limited capacity to love; and when the heart was enclosed in a relationship, other relationships may suffer affected. In particular, deeper love, the greater the damage, many people is because they can not forgive a loved one and tortured them, only to pass away end. In fact, the reason why we would be led astray in the Kue and resentment, not because they do not love, but because we do not know how to forgive. Consider: If you do not love, how it will hurt?
humanity's greatest suffering, just hate the people we love.
so please keep in mind that tolerance depends on the power already is in our hands. lenient with Like all the skills needed to practice, the entry must first spend some time when, until skilled, can become a natural reaction.
Whenever you tolerant of others, there are angels in heaven singing for you. When you choose to love, do not then closed mind, it would mean for their own heart shot into a dark aura, not only to reduce the burden of others, but also help them to learn to forgive.
November 13

trust what a person finds competence, integrity and credibility, is trust. partner trust is an affirmation of individual personality; lack of trust, we will continue on a person's purpose is to make mistakes and negative judgments. Therefore, trust can remove any doubt, to believe that the trust of women to men, make him happy next to her, and play your best. Of course, if she finds that her partner was flawed, she is destined to be disappointed. However, if she believed her partner willing to help , he will feel much attention, by her acceptance and gratitude completely. With the trust of a woman, men will understand their abilities, skills and long before.
November 14
Health
of mutual trust with a woman when a man nature of desire, she would feel a call, but the men just the opposite. When his companions need to offer something, he will be electrocuted. This interdependence, creating attract a healthy relationship.
emotional attraction so that we can put aside rigid ideal conditions, when a man needs to experience the joy of being a woman, the companion does not care about looks. because of her reaction, can He put aside the requirement of appearance; when the woman felt her partner of favor, there would be demanding his appearance, because the pursuit of the male partner, so she was eager to follow your heart, not indulging in false Prince Charming fantasy.
November 15
change
women often know that their pay did not pay off, but as long as in-depth understanding, it is not difficult to understand the male partner has been tried, but he was not aware of her in the end what it should be.
If we can understand the man's change of gender relations, not only from the more willing he was, and she can also create a desire for change. In addition to learning the correct interpretation of changes in male partner, women are aware of their own in the changes in emotional relationship. man if changed to no longer be gallant to women; woman if changed, will be taken for granted the contribution of the male partner.
No. 52: November
sudden burst of happiness paralysis on the 16th

when we are not self-love, but also repeatedly been hurt each other, the heart will be bitter, so that many couples would use the self-paralysis of the way to deal with this situation , tell yourself: , and you love than a bed and sleep partner, is one of the most painful and lonely thing.
people often suffer from lack of love in order to avoid the bad habits, this practice can certainly make people temporarily put aside pain, but will also stifle the enthusiasm, so that we do not know what they have to even out.
the pursuit of love at this time only to learn, and have the skill to ask what you want, will eradicate pain away Eph.
November 17
sudden burst of happiness
we often can see this story: a woman who consider themselves happily married, years later, woke up one day, only to find myself very hard, and then she began to express their grievances, complaining her husband, but the practice is unfair. President to see his wife so unhappy and I could not believe it, he said he is willing to change, but she said it had been too lazy to wait. < br> She's tired of window-dressing in long-term causes: resentment obviously heart of the community, has worked hard to show care and tenderness.
a contented, happy woman, perhaps in a sudden after years of injustice or resentment felt disheartened.
Some women live for many years in the vision for the future, urging the immediate pain of denial, their mood swings may be a week, twice a month, or ten or twenty years after the reversal of mood, from happy Cloud fell to the quagmire of frustration, but also a woman longer deny the suffering, the greater the intensity of depression.
in most cases, women find that their needs have not been met, often the identity of the victim itself, blindly blame the President, refused to take responsibility. This is because she must wait until after the cleanse dirty mind, to find a new balance in order to review their own.
November 18
woman accepted
makes men grow women's inclusion, and her reaction made him feel close to prepared. When men feel similar to one another will naturally be more concerned to understand woman. woman's admission is to cultivate the fertile soil of a man of curiosity.
November 19
pressure symptoms
man under pressure when there are three symptoms: withdrawal, blame and closed. In these cases, the women often feel that the man does not love her, worried about the two men feelings out of the question. In actual fact, if a woman can clearly identify the three signs, the male partner will be able to help cope with stress easily, to restore balance.
Similarly, the woman has under her pressure, there will be men often misunderstood three indicators: upset, overreact or tired. woman angry, unhappy men often will follow, but do not know how to help her, so much noise will be more stiff. At this point a man identified the woman if these pressures reaction, we can learn not nervous, good support her.
November 20
talent education and skills training
of finding a partner, like with any other life skills, requires talent, education and practice. available information, training and experience more, your odds are greater. If the three minor, skill proficiency naturally greatly increased.
marriage, too, some couples started very well; have to have to spend a long time to overcome and the integration of their differences, and thus experience the joy of love.
November 21

recrimination and blame every problem, conflict or negative emotions woman will be asked to identify their own fault, to depersonalize responsibility, then find someone else wrong. On the contrary, men will be blame, then unaware of what is not.
not responsible for men not only will critical of others first, and then look at their problems.
This is because men take the trouble as a obstacle to achieve the target, so any interference will be pushed on others, while women look at the way the issue is less cramped, only if it is a need to correct results. As a woman from this point of view, so they can quickly see the range of possible approaches, relative to the problem will be more likely to embrace themselves and accept others for blame.
particularly heavy. If she can learn for their own defense, will be able to give men a chance to calm down, to review their responsibilities.
November 22 in due course pulled

woman wanted to feelings free, do not change. When the companions said good.
men's friendly attitude, calm face that means he can feel bad companions. If he can calm sympathy, women can also convert your own mood relatively calm. For women, the male partner's support or assistance, that is, the performance of friendship; For men, the female companion of the easy-going and not give more requirements, but also a friendly.
Therefore, as a partner's friends, do not attempt to change their mood, or in other feel bad, to depersonalize responsibility. If a timely detached themselves learn, the absolute transformation of their relationship in favor.
November 23
woman at
woman responsibility, that is, repeatedly expressed confidence in the male partner; man's responsibility is to win the trust of a woman.
companion hurt if the man refused to apologize, it will inadvertently build in the heart wall.
Section 53: hash make good margin
good man often do not understand the importance of compensation or apology, the wise woman will let a man know that fooling with dead ducks, she has the right to hear him say br> November 24
remain cheerful woman
a major challenge, is disappointed when her male partner, or feel unloved, still maintain a cheerful mood. trust, acceptance of partner is extremely important thing, otherwise, women tend to forget their own needs and the weak.
tips to enhance the trust is: Do not expect perfect companion, and to believe in his own care. If we can understand the differences between the sexes , women will believe, even if the male partner is so gentle like himself, he is in love with her.
Slowly, she can understand the way of love male partner. The most important thing is, she can skill reminder of the male partner to support her.
need to work hard to trust a woman; men should strive to care for female companion.
If men want to remove the core wall to take care of a female, do more work in order to restore the two the passion. However, he granted if the companion, the heart wall will begin to stack. Every time he thought efforts are not appreciated, the wall has added to a brick, so he will once again worried and resistance, do things alone.
If men work hard enough, will eventually overcome the habits of indifference, out of loneliness, become stronger, the road of life will be less rugged. Finally, he will be because of the joy of female partners and the infection to an unprecedented full angry.
November 25
men and women are not under the pressure of the perceived power of men
mainly focused on the external world, so they will try to change the objective external in the environment to reduce stress. man in the face of pressure, will draw on their own ideas, to decide what method to use palliative pressure.
if a man cut from the emotional side to the issue, often subject to negative emotions contain, and becomes destructive, unstable, and self-centered. Although not entirely negative emotions is a bad thing, they also have the function of treatment or reducing stress, however, when men feel the negative emotions and lose their objectivity, often they will become violent and cold.
women are more focused on the subjective inner world, it often would take the opportunity to relieve the pressure by changing its own. woman will vent their emotions, in order to balance and adjustment. For example, if something made her unhappy, in order to decompression, she can change their mindset and become more flexible, inclusive, forgiveness, patience and considerate, so that the mood change for the better.
as long as women maintain a positive mood, thoughts on the Ching Ming and flexibility can be maintained; men Just thinking and maintain a positive attitude, he can give care and support.
November 26

err is human companions in the search process, each person will inevitably mistakes, even if their relationship has been fixed, you may still do something wrong. feelings of success or failure, depending on whether we learn from our mistakes and improve their recognition ability. If you want to love to go over the previous generation more successful, they must learn new skills.
wanted to run fast, and relatively higher risk of falls. The trick to success is to be able to get up and move. In fact, everyone can certainly do so. etc. goal achievement, the review Cheng pulls, you will learn about past mistakes has its undeniable reason.
November 27
men to express anger
man angry easily out of control, and change too hot cold, or threw things around, or Koubuzeyan, this is a man's shortcomings. man do to be made, otherwise better not to encourage the male partner wanton women express their emotions.
man To express anger, preferably with a They do not object to share gas. If he stomach Hatefury, others not want to hear him speak, he often would say, or the last to make something to make their own regret. In other words, the restraint force of men worse than women, so often used to express emotions physically. But even if another gas man, should also be responsible for their actions, not to take this reason to stall.
angry men, should learn to calm himself.
man should be remembered that a basic principle: If you said something in a fit of anger or made a decision then to never be able to avert. once you understand this point, a woman in the male partner can be angry, be careful to give him plenty of room, do not force him to talk or do decisions, and so calm him, the deal with him.
November 28
if they refused to free
the premise of the pressure in the absence of the request or reject each other, even very healthy relationship the.
we only know that it will partner to generously refused, will not scruple to make their own demands. the two sides can learn to rely on each other and believe each other's dedication.
November 29 moderate dependence on

feelings and trust with the two growing, we will be more calm, we feel each other's mutual needs. Once we believe that there is any need, will accompany the other side of the heart feelings will be burning. But if we rely too much on the other side, too mean to pay the final but will trust and concern, and even self-destructive feelings.
partner can expect to pay at all times, is a naive idea of wisdom and not . Sometimes they share no, we are desperately required, it is like for a person sitting in a wheelchair, said: > At this point can only modify their expectations in order to more successfully meet and trust each other. With trust, even if the partner occasionally disappointing, we can appreciate their dedication, this sensible attitude to make people more tolerant.
November 30
have a good margin
good casual way to break up the attitude of the partner's assessment, relevant to our ability to find good company. If want to own after breaking up, he moved to the smooth more suited to their next target, all depends on good terms with each other if you can.
parted ways, the quality of a relationship under the stake.
Section 54: The soul mate encounter < br> a good end can create a successful start. When you are angry or full of sin to end a relationship, in the face of the next person better suited to their own, but you is not easy to accept each other. Unfortunately, in breaking up, often blame the other party can not meet our expectations.
women most likely to feel that they blindly pay, return of the unmet need, the result put themselves with the same Jour. On the contrary, men are often full of evil in the breaking up of women dissatisfaction with a very guilty.
Although these situations are quite common, but may also opposites. In short, I feel rejected or abandoned were often complain that a party responsible for endless; and rejected the guilty party harder and harder. No matter In either case, the result is the same - love is over, our hearts are sealed up.
open your heart to embrace love again.
only when we open your heart, to attract, and even love for person, or at least slow to find the object close to the ideal, so that their goals step by step approach. If the mind is closed, we tend to repeat.
The same is true of marriage. If we can not resolve the pain and resentment aside anger and guilt, love, growth would be hampered. When love stagnant, we will begin to doubt your partner. In order to inspire the best in each other, see it as their companion, we must remove their own set heart disorders, anger and guilt aside, can once again feel and experience the lasting love.
nourishing love
December
year after paying the end, I hope you can during the year feel a deeper love, because life itself is a path of growth and understanding.
Love is the core of our needs, and all the feelings, both started their own treasure. Before we can give love nothing before the reservation , you must first learn to accept themselves from others and.
even if we know how to cherish their own, and gender is not easy to get along after all. the needs of countless human beings, live together and maintain romantic feeling, not only the good side to play their most , but also supplemented by a new understanding and skills.
Love is the most precious gift, do not give up easily. to live every moment as an opportunity to give and receive love, you will soon discover the joys of life abound. When your heart is full of love, life would be as a happy holiday.
love as long as careful management, the harvest will be immeasurable. abide by the promise of love, care for their partner, your heart again and again as goalkeeper love to open.
from the perspective of the mind, want to get married, because our souls remember the promises of previous lives, feel the will of God. to keep the marriage is to follow God's will.
When we open the door, life bit by bit they all give birth to its meaning. only to keep its promise, we can put into the spiritual life of marriage. reflect the love, to the ordinary world into the heavenly.
December Love is the core needs of day

human is a very complex animal. has not only the endless physical and psychological needs, but not as long as there is a satisfactory level, will cause pain. especially in these requirements, as long as there is a defects occur most basic needs, will be a drag on other areas - that is, the demand for love, the love of others and their own.
the lack of love, we will encounter a variety of problems.
human shortcomings and setbacks, mainly caused by the lack of love. This basic requirement above the top of any need, love is the basic sense of security, but also success. No matter what you have, unless you can love yourself, and with relatives and friends to share, to enjoy the fame and wealth would be difficult to heart. reputation Peerage, none can replace the human need for love.
December 2 meet

and soul mate soul mate qualities, often We are not aware they have the part that. only love each other, we can begin to accept Downs wake up in the body of the same qualities, this self-excavation process, will make it more mature, our life.
when After getting more mature, we will be more relaxed and their relationship is doomed previous life. even if your partner is not perfect, we feel that the other is the gift of God.
December 3
cleaning woman emotional
the occasion of depression, it is time to clean up state of mind. If the lack of the ease of work, women will gradually lose love, and the ability to grow in love, so will the nature of her emotions swing impeded the passage of time, she also will become numb and the lack of enthusiasm.
men often think that, if the companion is very successful career, there will be emotional ups and downs, in fact just the opposite. Women in the workplace have to deal with a lot of stress and emotional pollution, , cleaning the emotional needs just delayed it. woman put on, Business Wear, can be their own emotional roller coaster from the detached, but a home, she would need the support of gentle male partner, this is all a woman needs and gratitude.
While cleaning the mood will not affect performance, but it definitely affected her low spirits to communicate with their loved ones.
December 4
of better performance with the relations between the sexes
first met when both sides think the warmth and affection, it can not only stimulate the brain and the body's chemical reactions, so that we fully enjoy the company of each other, but also strengthen our attraction for each other, to stimulate more high energy, and even healthy so that we become more energetic, perception and the world a better partner.
better sex life, God has given life to those who practice love feedback.
December 5
target A woman upset with the process
, it is difficult to relax and reach a climax, this time, she needs most is her partner's embrace and warmth. When the male partner to gently hold her without asking for sex with her, she but to relax in response to the needs of the male partner. This is the best for her experience, but also the feeling after orgasm with a man is actually very similar.
Section 55: Men and women love to know tenderness
The demand is very important, otherwise the men would not know how to treat her gentle patience. a woman of this not about sex, there is no physical contact with a specific purpose, has long been admired beyond the extent of the scope of man's understanding. touching of the women like sex in a man is so important.
December 6
successful men and women to give and to accept
Zengyi very wonderful way to complement each other: success take care of a female, will make men feel happiness; male partner's pet makes a woman happy. Of course, women also like to take care of their own men, but they also need to be hurt. I've never heard of a woman, said: still like for him to pay. sacrifice, it will not feel constrained by her because most women appreciate their desire to love and encouragement.
December 7
man and men love
achieve the target, the heart of the emotion will followed by live together, and when he get to play a strong side completely after the tender will be restored, the performance of a variety of emotions. When he was able to meet their own dreams and companion, will be able to relax and enjoy more peace, love and joy .
from the sexual point of view, men orgasm help female partners, it will feel to complete the task, and the dates to make him feel gratitude and love fruitful, they also enjoy each other's companionship and love . sexual pleasure, men make the most experience of female partners and their love, and commitment to the woman's fidelity.
December 8
love can inspire men
man in love to please women partners, will show their best side. When his heart wide open when he believes he can do and completely changed. Therefore, you may wish to give men the chance to prove himself, he would do what, only when he admission can not be done only when the old selfish recovery.
man in love as much as their companion's care. He would suddenly no longer just doing things for themselves, while the energy out to love to care for others. at this time that he would meet as his companion happy, to make her happy, he can endure any suffering. Thus, all the struggles have become easy to bear - because he had a higher goal.
young boys light things can be satisfied for their own, but wait until the grow up, the self-satisfaction to no longer sufficient. in order to experience the feeling of complete, he must love in life into the elements. only learn selfless way to give, men can get rid of selfish habits. Although he still needs love, but his biggest need is to give love.
December 9
treasure worthy of the subject of gender relations
is a continuous Shoushou and sharing process. If you want to maintain successful relationships, both sides have to cherish themselves, as a basis for their pay. In addition, the ability to pay will directly affect our ability to accept - unless a person can be supported, otherwise not been paid.
caring so that we can open hearts, believe they should be cherished by the people. Thus, partners can best respond to our needs and concerns, it is very important.
ten February 10
men need a man alone, through action Qutan
touch their emotions, so when the behavior being recognized and appreciated, he will feel loved, and report with more concern, but Women do not understand this, because she is talking directly to express their feelings.
woman will treat her the way from the others to understand love, so that the other side to understand her when she listens to her speak, the feeling of love will remember with affection. when she needs to obtain recognition and support, she will feel loved.
Thus, women put their own needs rigidly applied to men, as long as happy to see the male partner to him desperately openings, and think this is a kind of love his moves. Little do they know their most to do is give him a lot of space alone, so he calmed down, and then a warm welcome to rejoin him. If a man love a woman can understand the feelings, it male partner can focus on the way, the expression of support for him.
December 11

Practice makes perfect sense if you want to create a romantic, a man must try to listen to, respond to the needs of female partners, while women the contribution of the male partner is the best grateful. Of course she will have no feeling, just like men sometimes turn a blind eye to the needs of female partners, but, if aware of the interaction of these basic state of the road to love will not go the wrong the.
In fact, the more the feelings of the training will more easily maintain.'d appreciate it if a man is expected to own some of the companions as he would have been more interesting; when a woman will listen to her male partner is expected to words, and thoughtful response, she would express more appreciation and recognition. Then, when he made a mistake, selfish, or lazy, the female partners are more willing to forgive him.
companion will be grateful if a man is expected to some of their own, as would have been more interesting.
romantic ceremony need time to develop, if women continue to praise the man Tiji, he will continue for her and show the maximum advantages. the lack of women with the encouragement, the men will probably go back, seeking only to concentrate on making big money, to do great things. If men work for the companions, it means the opportunity to experience again and again to her love for him.
December 12
understanding heart
partner want to know when we worked extremely hard and feel very different thoughts on the occasion, will gradually realized that the other party to understand how difficult it is when we are. When we feel frustrated, disappointed, may wish to based on their experience, imagine the other's feelings. only to understand the feelings of the culture is a major challenge to gender, we can learn to appreciate each other.
no one is perfect, even if the sexes get along very simple, but is easier said than done. long-term changes require time to develop, when the partner disappoint you, first do not be angry, may as well give yourself the space, but also to each other a little breathing space, so make the heart of understanding the limits of your partner inclusive and error.
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