Wednesday, February 23, 2011

After talking to 90 of life, values and views on love

 After a 80 non-mainstream students and 90 girls, blind date, after Enlightenment
after each person is born, came to this world in a certain social environment to grow, from education to work by a variety of effect. In particular, understanding the human mind, from ignorance to knowledge, from the simple to the diversity, there is a process of development and change, in the process, it gradually formed its own view of the world, life and values.
Some people may say, I did not the world, life and values. It is not possible, there is no world class, there is no view of the world's people do not exist, everyone has their own view of the world, but some people's world view is the system Some are scattered, or one aspect. regardless of whether you admit that others can see, because your thoughts, words, actions subject to the mercy of your world view, which is a reflection of your worldview.
view of the world in the end is a What kinds of things? simply, the view of the world is that people of various phenomena and the world overall view of things, including social values, nature and ethics, aesthetics and so on. With the view of the world, but also will have a life and values. life mainly refers to people's views on the general problems of life, including life meaning, purpose, attitude and ideals and so on. values mainly refers to people an understanding and objective evaluation of things.
Since everyone has their own world, life and values, then this different and have different forms. from the whole can be divided into two categories, namely, materialist world outlook and idealism of the world. These two world views are completely different, diametrically opposed. materialist view of the world recognize the material world, objectivity, recognition of the human spirit, consciousness is derived from the material. idealist world view denies the material world, advocate the use of spiritual, awareness campaigns to explain the world to promote awareness of primary and secondary material. from two types of world view to speaking, people in different historical periods because of different economic status, different education, different from the fundamental interests of the different practical ability, but also led to the diversity of world view, or significant differences. So, to say, everyone the same world view is not absolute.
So, what role the human world view it? people live in this world is to know and transform the world, these two tasks must be based view of the world, must be in a certain world view be carried out under the guidance can be said, and the world for people to understand and transform the world has a very important role, but different people have different world views on the guiding role. as in real life, is also successful, some modest and prudent Some people become complacent; also losers, and some people aggressive, but some people go dark; also the leading cadres, some discipline, some people are corrupt, all this variety.
the role of the human world view, specifically, first it determines the way people think. It once formed a certain view of the world before we can use these ideas to guide their own actions, thus making it to analyze and deal with the problem The basic principle, that is, methodology. Secondly, the view of the world determines one's outlook on life. how to be human? how to get their life? the face of these problems, provides a view of the world of man and nature, man and society, interpersonal relations fundamental views and attitudes to determine the purpose of life provides a fundamental point of view. Again, the view of the world determine the people's values. people's likes and dislikes certain things or phenomena, reflecting the value of issues in the selection and orientation, and the world for the people knowledge of things and phenomena to provide a theoretical basis and methodological principles, it can be said that values are the embodiment of world view. To sum up, what kind of a person of the world, there will be what kind of thinking, what kind of attitudes and values of life.
people live in complex social environment, things are changing experience, there will always encounter many different sizes of the contradictions, frustrations and conflicts, brings trouble and distress. At this time must take the initiative into full play the enthusiasm of individuals, through self-regulation and control, improving mental health in order to master the combat with a variety of pathogenic factors of the initiative. we must first establish a correct outlook on life.
life is life value, purpose, point of view the sum of roads, is the basic view of life. It not only determines a person's attitude to the surroundings, but also regulates human behavior, the direction and conduct of activities.
life is ideology category, which in point of view, beliefs, ideals, needs, motivations, interests and other specific forms, and in the consciousness of the human personality tendencies, and this tendency as the stability of psychological life, in the person's whole psychological activities, in leading position, human psychology plays a regulatory function, the dominant role.
establish a correct outlook on life, the public interest to be able to know the overall situation, exercise restraint and abide, not for personal gains and losses, mean and will not be caught actively strive to make achievements, give their value of existence, the joy of being shared with the public.
fact, establish a correct outlook on life, but also a belief in people. in the big world, many things people do not is will of man. But the role of faith in the human can not be underestimated, it has a strange human health effects, faith in people is particularly important when the powerless.
who has a firm belief, from both ideological or religious beliefs, or from experience, can in the most hostile environment to obtain the best results. so the face of illness or distress, we must first establish confidence, overcome disease and distress. If you can not beat, they never want to disappointment, acknowledge and accept the reality with optimism, this is a smart move.
Q: people living in the end for what?
is the pursuit of family, love, friendship perfect unity?
or the pursuit of academic, career , the family business of three harvests?
sometimes very firm, who is in constant pursuit of living do not you?
pursuit of the perfect value of life, the pursuit of lofty ideals?
the pursuit of harmonious interpersonal relationships, the pursuit of happiness family life?
people are always afraid of death, but mortal man, so this issue was a change of perspective to ask: live boring hh Why live? to communism? for world peace? or for to take the initiative to choose to die will think, people of this so-called for freedom, democracy, equality, fraternity , a hundred years of life, fleeting, just a short span. Chairman Mao said, laugh, alive, old and live after the hh when his wife is living for themselves? , what is unbalanced it? Why can not we do better, so for us the living easier for some of it?
cite an obvious example, the home for the elderly, such as parents, if you ask them about is that they live very specific goals mm, is not it? to see their children happy, they rejoice.
see their parents happy, you're not happy? to see his wife happy, you're not happy? even happy to see people who did not know, to see the truth in love couple embracing, see children toddler, see the romantic desert sand, you have no reason not to be happy? Happy! But this happiness can not be built on top of someone else's pain, but also should be able to infect others, making others happy also produced a chain reaction of happiness, that is the real happiness. ancients said: Public Lele, what music? As long as you happy, why do you tube why people living with you?
when you enjoy the true meaning of life, you will feel alive good!
goal in life is what?
life goals is that what you really want what you want

think what
love like what
goal in life is determined
I think you know you want to change the
how to find the target?
1, you have to understand what your interests are, as you want to become.
2, you have to work hard to learn, to learn about their needs
3, to maintain a cheerful mood, only the optimistic outlook on life, in order not to regret in life
4, do not be confused by the things around you, to see others do so many people can find a lot of money, so the school, but he learned a half, you see other people do not what they earned, in another switch items, and turn, you think you can really have success in one area? I think it will not
5, concerned about the things around them, care about who cares for you people to guide you in the right path in life of people.
then you think about your goals in the end is what? last to this goal to guide your actions toward your goal.
What is the value
refers to people's position on the fundamental values, orientation, attitude. the difference between the two concepts, the equivalent of religion and religious beliefs, ethics and the relationship between personal morality: the former is the subject of academic research, the latter with each person's pursuit of life and choice are related. While this distinction in science and there are strict legal sense, but in life, people have used does not distinguish between the two.
So what is the or From the standpoint of content, value is about the value of the concept. So what is the value? If you use a very plain everyday language, the value is actually what we usually say pros and cons, gains and losses, fortune, honor, pros and cons are equal, useful useless, lovely hateful, inappropriate properly, it is worthwhile, it should not be, it is important not important, priorities, etc. were all included, can be used to express good and bad ; in the world who can use a We used the most words is the most frequent and most natural, it is able to represent the value and values have extensive. When people say anything must be kind about it, What more ideas, thoughts, attitudes, combined.
from the form side, constitute the unique values, ideas, concepts, spiritual form, mainly refers to people's minds the belief, faith, the ideal system. values different from the knowledge , theoretical and scientific system, which is not primarily that people value on the basis of knowledge select the inner position, orientation system. Generally speaking, the reach of knowledge and experience where and when (the development of human knowledge is infinite, and its current known is always limited), belief, faith and ideals more work. by observing the phenomenon of belief in society, It is not difficult to find the existence and role of this special.
side from the source and foundation of any human values and change are not produced out of thin air, and the final analysis, it reflects the person's social existence, that life, life conditions and practice experience and other features. the values of the fundamental underlying basis of the status of the subject, needs, interests and capabilities of other specific conditions, the value of human life reflected in the mind and accumulation. Thus the values and human reality is always linked different status, different conditions, different experiences people have different values, in the presence of the class, ethnic and other diversity among people based on reality, values is very diverse.
a functional perspective, the most important function of the values the evaluation is to be perceived as the standard system. In other words, people of any belief in the value, beliefs and ideals, once formed, it will be perceived as something for the evaluation of (value) weight, weigh the pros and cons taken abandoned deep cultural system, the relative stability of the composition of the leading role of the sky, the spirit of the human central nervous system of mental activity. values that everyone will be, always will be; not only individuals, group, class, national, state and society but also to there; not only in front of a piece reflected the specific matter, but also in their career, the general direction of social development, decision-making on large displays. a country and a society's values, in fact, it's ideology and culture, ideology, system, most core content, the national social system spiritual support and spiritual driving force.
values not only affect the values of the Effect of
individual behavior, but also affects the behavior of group behavior and the entire organization. At the same objective conditions, for the same thing, because different people's values , will have a different behavior. in the same units, the work was focused, as some concerned with money rewards, but also some attention to the status of power, this is because their values are different. the same rules and regulations, if two people of opposite values, then they would take a completely opposite behavior to achieve organizational goals will play a different role.
the type of values
1, rational values, which is based on knowledge and truth-centered values. has a rational value who see the pursuit of truth above all else.
2, which is based on the values of the United States to coordinate and shape the values of symmetry as the center, they see the United States and coordinated more than anything else.
3, political values, it based on the values of power and position as the center, this type of power and status of the people to see the most valuable.
4, the values of social groups and others that it is the values for the center to the community, service to others that is the most valuable.
5, economic values, it is an effective and affordable as the central values. that everything in the world, is the most valuable benefits.
6, religious values, it is faith centered values. that faith is the most valuable.
example: what to send to what kind of person, but also embodies the values of people. For example, to give leadership, leadership is something precious value; delivery to friends and family, is not something valuable, but because you have no share of heart. and so by not only money but more importantly, love, friendship and more! buy things, they also reflect the people's values, for example: you buy a computer , how much money to buy into a value scale, too refuse to buy 2000, buy 5000 or more extravagant, but no matter how much money to buy, you want to see is some sort of substance in the prior to see is Who paid this material under the hard labor, after all, is not a thing come out of thin air, to know how to return! drips of grace, will be the smallest favor! talking about a person's value orientation is!
I often ask You: What is love, you are the answer: do not know!
philosophy that I talk about love it! - Plato's views on love
day, Socrates, Plato asked his teacher what is love ? teacher let him go first to the wheat fields, picking a Catcher in the largest and most wide golden wheat, the period can only pick once, and can only go forward, not back. Plato in accordance with the teacher says so effort. and he's out of the field empty-handed. The teacher asked him why he will not find any? He said: Because only one chance, can not go back even to see the largest and most golden period, because I do not know whether there are better in front of , so do not pick; go in front, made a further decision to see a good total is less than before, the largest and most had already missed the golden ears of corn; so I did not pick. The teacher said: This is the . After another day, Plato asked his teacher what is marriage, his teacher called his first woods, cut down a whole the largest and most dense woods, the most suitable home for the Christmas tree on the tree. During the same only can be cut once, and the same can only go forward, not back. Plato do so according to the words of the teacher. This time, he took a mediocre, not very dense, the trees are not too bad back . The teacher asked him how the tree came back with an ordinary tree, he said: , so missed, the final and not come out with nothing. ear and trees, you must have great courage and pay a considerable effort. life, there are many beautiful scenery, do not blink, exciting and often very easy to miss.
when I realized that after contact with the spirit of Greece who I've been on Plato, for love, understanding of how life ignorance. People created a platonic love, as if Plato, Socrates makes a!
Plato described by Socrates said: Love in all respects similar to themselves, but also with their worship of God like. She will discuss what is human happiness, virtuous people how to live, to establish their common worship of God.
This is love of education, however, Platonic love, education and rehabilitation is not reflected in love of conquest and control unilaterally.
If a person has not reached the self-same sense of height, he will worship his love mm was conquered by his love. In the process, he denied his own sense of strength, because in the long run, no one can realize the expectations of his idol-style, solid disappointment will be inevitable emergence of treatment is to find a new idol, sometimes endless loop. Although this love is strong profound, but for their worship of desire and disappointment. Fromm said that the illusion of love for a crazy cult, but when he realized he underestimated the power of the beauty of Socrates mm in the passionate and innocent appearance of the following hiding so much restraint and sober. From then on his mind when dealing with others has never been off shame, he says he is like a runaway slave trying to escape his
shame in my opinion love is the source of generation. With the experience of shame that has been self-awareness, The sense of self-experience is to achieve self-identity premise. If this sense of shame to break the non-return to the really really self-self, then this positive self-transcendence is the same performance. only to the self-same sense of height, can he possibly love from the illusion to get out, and only then have the opportunity to experience true love!
true love is there from the center of the two exchanges, both from the existing centers to experience their own, only the sense of such a center is the reality of human experience is the life, is the foundation of love. This experience of love is a constant challenge to the process, it is time-sensitive, dynamic, development of labor rather than a spatial, static, simple place to rest. Love will not be a simple and direct way to show, as lovers often false if false, the behavior may be open only a camouflage, We must use our common sense to explain these symptoms. If two people from the existing center to experience each other, consistent with the self-same and then to each other, rather than avoid each other, then either harmony or conflict, happiness or sadness in love facts are secondary. love there is only one way to prove their relations mm depth and vitality of the other body, the vitality of each other!
talk so much, you need to experience love, to feel the true meaning of love!
to talk about my understanding of love!
What is love?
love is actually a life. and you love a laugh, stroll quietly, without words do not commitment.
on their aprons and went into the kitchen, as you love a soup pot, when the wind blows her skirt tightly, Li Li recklessly, rainy day, take an umbrella propped up for her a clear sky. woke up, the wavefront between the considerate gentle flow, the skin between the warm, life can be happy!
what love is, love is actually a call when away from home two care, allowing each other's heart in waiting Acacia in the home together.
what love is, love is actually a saliva when you're thirsty, a cup of tea when tired; aggrieved when a greetings, then a little humor when angry flower.
love What? Love is actually a state of mind. ten-dollar roses, thousands of diamonds can be as beautiful as love, as the eyes can be a haven for each other.
What is love?
love is actually a kind of responsibility . you know what shoulder to rely on, he knows only he can fall asleep in your arms.
What is love?
love is actually a kind of fate. a red line, two Acacia, Sansei edge set.
What is love?
love is actually a way of life. relative to Ru to Mo, who are still holding your hand, stand with the wind and rain. vicissitudes, such as fleeting, love is like a glass of wine aging like a play.
love is simple, that is, inadvertently, the warmth of your hand touched your heart, between the seasons cycle, with growing old.
tell you a view of the world, life and values, love, you want to read slowly, because this kind of life you take what is useful, do not know where to ask people understand! this is my first time with the people speaking these philosophical reason, I hope you can understand!

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